I started this site after adopting children suffering with Reactive Attachment Disorder...  The years of dealing with this exposed all of our family's weaknesses and flaws.  It exposed our individual weaknesses and flaws.  It tore our family apart... 
This site is about fighting to preserve the WHOLE family... 
All families are at war on some level.   Divorce is at an all time high.  Addictions, abuse, abandonment, poor parenting, behavior disorders, hidden addictions, generational dysfunction, re-marriage... families ending... families blending... foster care families... adoption families.  Success doesn't come in a tidy little happy ending like most fairy tales would have you believe.   Success is not when your peers tell you what a good job you're doing.   Success is when you keep doing the best you can... when you get back up again when you fail...  to persevere and press on... to forgive yourself... to forgive others... to accept that you and your loved ones are not perfect... and when it's all said and done, and you and/or your loved ones are still a mess... you know somehow you made a positive difference instead of making a contribution to the dysfunction....
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-The War-zones-
..And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, 
IF WE FAINT NOT
Galations 6:9
RAD-WARS
95% of us come from dysfunctional homes...the rest are in denial.
~John Bradshaw~

Helping families cope... heal... understand... and overcome obstacles that sabotage family relationships...
RAD-Wars Mission Statement
Comrades at Arms- Friends, family and acquaintances... How to develop, recognize and maintain health relationships... How to set boundaries...
On the Homefront- Keeping marriage healthy... surviving divorce... parenting... blending families... reconciliation... adult RADs... domestic violence... Parental Alienation Syndrome... Children of divorce...
The Compass- Devotions for hurting parents and family... surviving and thriving through CHRIST... strengthening our spiritual lives... personal growth...
Allies in War- Links to other sites, blogs, email groups, information and materials
1,2,3,4... I Declare a RADwar -- The story behind RADwars 
Fighting the Terrorism Within - Dealing with Reactive Attachment and other serious issues that attack the family from within
Movies & TV Shows- Movies and TV show reviews and recommendations for parents and/or the whole family who are facing issues... families with troubled children, blending families, addictions, adoption, divorce...
Unseen Battles- Spiritual battles... Prayer... dealing with past... dealing with suicidal feelings, addictions, sex abuse...