I started this site after adopting children with Reactive Attachment Disorder... It tore our family apart...
This site is about fighting to preserve the WHOLE family...
All families are at war on some level.  Divorce is at an all time high.... Addictions, abuse, abandonment, poor parenting, behavior disorders, hidden addictions, generational dysfunction, re-marriage... families ending... families blending....foster care.....adoption...
Our weapons... God, faith, wisdom, love, education, healing, forgiveness, reconciliation, counselling, health, understanding, good communication, support, encouragement...
Success doesn't come in a tidy little happy ending like most fairy tales would have you believe.  Success is not when your peers tell you what a good job you're doing.  Success is when you keep doing the best you can.....when you get back up again when you fail.... to perservere and press on.... to forgive yourself..... to forgive others.... to not be perfect or expect perfection.... and when it's all said and done, and they are still a mess....you know somehow you made a positive difference in their lives......
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This page was last updated: 14 May, 2017
What's New

Ice Princess.....
when pain in relationships cause you to close yourself off to others around you
Happy New RAD Year.....
What our hopes and dreams and resolutions for our family, are not what most mothers hope for
Daddy's Girl......
the father~daughter relationship and how it affects all other male/female relationships
Tragedies and Atrocities.....
what do we do to keep our public safe, yet not take away our liberties and freedoms... the rise of massacres
wounded Father/Daughter relationships........ what happens when girls grow up with wounds from their past......how does it affect who the partner with later in life.....
To Her....
what do you do when you find out there's another woman and your relationship was all a lie?
Ode to Matchdotcom.....
getting hurt in relationships that go wrong straying from God
A Mother ....
When your adopted child rejects you because of the abuse they endured
Somewhere......
Divorced? In between relationships?  Having trouble waiting?  Longing for love?
What It Is......
how do we all define love?  What is it after we filter it through the pain in our lives
What I Miss.....
Coming to terms with the truth of a relationship and what you thought it was
Stools and Pews.....
Looking for love and friendship in all the wrong places??  What to do....where to go.....
I've Tried So Hard.....
Getting over the pain of an abusive marriage/relationship
I Cry.......
getting over the pain of a relationship ending, moving on, letting go
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~War-zones~
( CLICK THE CIRCLE )
..And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap,
IF WE FAINT NOT
Galations 6:9
RAD~WARS
Click the link for a great read........fictional story about a father's encounter with God after his daughter was victimized and killed........
Every mother's hope and prayer
95% of us
come from dysfunctional
homes.........
the rest are in denial.....
~John Bradshaw~
RAD-Wars Mission Statement
1,2,3,4... I Declare a RADwar -- The story behind RADwars and how it got started
~Fighting the Terrorism Within ~
Dealing with Reactive Attachment and like disorders that attack the family from within
~Comrades at Arms~
Friends, family and acquaintences... How to develope, recognize and maintain health relationships... How to set boundaries...
~On the Homefront~
Keeping marriage healthy... surviving divorce... parenting... blending families... reconciliation... adult RADs... domestice violence... Parental Alienation Syndrome... Children of divorce...
~The Compass~
Devotions for hurting parents and family... surviving and thriving through CHRIST... strengthening our spiritual lives... personal growth...
~Unseen Battles~
Spiritual battles... Prayer... dealing with past... dealing with suicidal feelings, addictions, sex abuse
~Movies & TV Shows~
Movies and TV show reviews and recommendations for parents and/or the whole family who are facing issues... families with troubled children, blending families, addictions, adoption, divorce.....
~Allies in War~
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